BEYOND TABOOS: Redefining Intimacy with Male Sex Toys

Male sex toys are toys designed for penis pleasure, from simple manual strokers to automatic toys that thrust, rotate, suck or vibrate for you. They are for solo play first of all, and they are nothing to feel awkward about: a toy simply gives you new sensations and more control over your own pleasure. Our range covers both styles, from the pocket-sized Realistic Silicone Vagina and Anus Masturbator to the fully automatic Warrior and Dakota.

Below you will find the main types of male toys, how ours compare, how to use one step by step and how to keep it clean.

Breaking the taboo around male sex toys

Toys for vulva owners are everywhere, yet male toys still carry an outdated stigma. There is no reason for it. Using a toy is just another way to explore what feels good, the same way a vibrator is. A toy can add variety to solo time, take the effort out of the motion and let you focus on the sensation instead of the technique. It does not replace anything, and it does not say anything about you except that you are curious.

Types of male sex toys

• Manual strokers. A soft sleeve you move by hand. Simple, quiet and nothing to charge.
• Vibrating masturbators. A sleeve with a motor that adds vibration or suction.
• Automatic masturbators. The toy creates the motion, like thrusting or rotation, so you can stay completely hands-free.
• Couples toys. Vibrating rings and other toys designed for shared play.

Our male sex toys

Realistic Silicone Vagina and Anus Masturbator: manual and pocket-sized

The Realistic Silicone Vagina and Anus Masturbator has a dual entry design with vaginal and anal openings and lifelike ribbed textures. Its page describes it as pocket-sized and discreet, easy to clean, easy to hide and beginner-friendly.

Best for: a simple, realistic first toy with no motor.

Male Masturbator Vibrator - Blowjob Toy: suction and vibration

The Male Masturbator Vibrator - Blowjob Toy offers double functionality with 10 suction and vibration modes, from soft kissing to intense oral sex simulation.

Best for: oral-style sensations with a range of intensities.

Warrior Automatic Male Masturbator: thrusting and rotation

The Warrior Automatic Male Masturbator is fully automatic and hands-free, combining 10 thrusting and 5 rotating modes. The sleeve is removable for quick, easy cleaning, and its page recommends using it with lube.

Best for: sitting back and letting the toy do all the work.

Dakota Automatic Sucking Vibrating Male Toy: suction with a pulling action

The Dakota Automatic Sucking Vibrating Male Toy offers 5 powerful suctions with a dynamic pulling action and 10 vibration settings. The sleeve comes out for easy cleanup, and lube is recommended for the best experience.

Best for: hands-free suction that mirrors an oral experience.

Browse the full range in our male sex toys collection. For a deeper comparison of the automatic models, read our automatic male masturbator guide. Searching for the Gawk Gawk 3000? Our Gawk Gawk 3000 guide explains what people mean by it.

How to choose your first male toy

• Want simple and quiet? Start with the manual Realistic Silicone Vagina and Anus Masturbator.
• Love oral? The Blowjob Toy or the Dakota, both built around suction.
• Want it fully hands-free? The Warrior, with automatic thrusting and rotation.
• Care about easy cleaning? The Warrior and Dakota both have removable sleeves.

What to check before you buy

• Manual or automatic. Manual toys are quiet and simple. Automatic toys do the work but need charging.
• Sleeve texture. Ribbed and textured sleeves add sensation with every stroke.
• Cleaning. A removable sleeve makes cleaning much easier, which matters if you plan to use the toy often.
• Size and storage. A pocket-sized toy is easier to hide and to pack for a trip.
• Delivery. Every order ships free in a plain box with discreet billing, so nobody knows what is inside.

Think about how you like to be touched today. If you enjoy a steady grip, a manual sleeve feels familiar. If you want to try something you cannot do with your hand, an automatic toy with suction or rotation is the bigger step.

How to use a male sex toy, step by step

Step 1: Charge and wash

Charge motorized toys fully. Wash the sleeve with warm water and mild soap and let it dry.

Step 2: Get comfortable

Lie back or sit somewhere you can relax. Give yourself time and privacy.

Step 3: Use plenty of water-based lube

Add lube inside the sleeve and on yourself. Lube is what makes a sleeve feel smooth instead of sticky.

Step 4: Start slowly

Ease in gently. With an automatic toy, choose the lowest mode first.

Step 5: Explore the modes

Move through the settings one at a time. Change the angle or grip and notice what you enjoy most.

Step 6: Clean it straight away

Remove the sleeve if your toy allows it, wash it inside and out and let everything dry fully.

Tips for a better experience

• Warm the sleeve. Run it under warm water before use for a more natural feel.
• Reapply lube. Add more as soon as it starts to feel less smooth.
• Take your time. A slower session can feel more intense than a quick one.
• Try edging. Get close, pause, then build up again. Our guide on how to last longer in bed shares more ideas.

Common mistakes to avoid

• Skipping lube. A dry sleeve is uncomfortable.
• Starting on the strongest mode. Build up gradually.
• Leaving the sleeve wet. Dry it fully before you store it.
• Using silicone-based lube. Water-based is the safe choice with silicone sleeves.

How to clean and store male toys

Take the sleeve out if your toy has one, turn it inside out if possible and wash it with warm water and mild soap. Rinse well and let it air dry completely, ideally with the opening facing down. Wipe the motor unit with a damp cloth and keep it away from running water. Store everything in a pouch, out of sight if you like. For hiding ideas, see the best place to hide your sex toys.

Male toys and shared play

Male toys are mainly for solo play, but they can be part of time with a partner too. A partner can control the pace of a manual sleeve, or you can use an automatic toy together as part of foreplay. Talk about it first, keep it light and see what you both enjoy.

Male sex toys FAQ

What is the best male sex toy for beginners?

A manual sleeve like the Realistic Silicone Vagina and Anus Masturbator, which its page describes as beginner-friendly.

What is an automatic male masturbator?

A toy that creates the motion for you, like the Warrior with thrusting and rotation or the Dakota with suction.

Do I need lube?

Yes. Water-based lube makes every sleeve smoother, and the Warrior and Dakota pages both recommend it.

How do I clean a male toy?

Remove the sleeve if possible, wash it with warm water and mild soap, rinse and let it dry fully.

Are male toys only for solo play?

They are designed mainly for solo play, but they can be part of shared play too.

How are your toys shipped?

In a plain box with discreet billing. Shipping is free.