Thrusting Dildo Guide: How Automatic Thrusting Toys Work and How to Use One

A thrusting dildo is a dildo with a motor that moves the shaft in and out on its own, so you get a rhythmic, lifelike motion without moving your hand. To use one, charge it, add plenty of water-based lube, insert it slowly while it is off or on the lowest mode, then let the toy do the work and change modes with the remote. Our heating thrusting dildos also warm up for a more natural feel.

Below we explain how thrusting toys work, compare our three thrusting models and walk you through your first session step by step.

How does a thrusting dildo work?

A regular dildo only moves when you move it. A thrusting dildo has a motor inside that pushes the shaft forward and back in a steady rhythm. Some models add vibration on top, and some add warmth, so the toy feels closer to skin temperature.

That is the main appeal: you can relax completely while the toy keeps the rhythm. With a remote control, you can change the speed or the mode without reaching for the base.

Our thrusting dildos compared

Black Automatic Remote Controlled Heating Thrusting Dildo

• Motion: automatic thrusting with remote-control ease.
• Modes: 7 pleasure modes to choose the speed and intensity you prefer.
• Warmth: warming technology for a more natural, immersive sensation.
• Size: insertable length 7 in (18 cm), extended reach 7.5 in (19 cm), diameter 1.7 in (4.5 cm).
• Hands-free: a strong suction cup that sticks to any flat surface.
• In the box: the dildo, a remote control, a magnetic USB charging cable and an instruction manual.

See it here: Black Automatic Remote Controlled Heating Thrusting Dildo.

Oly Automatic Remote Controlled Heating Thrusting Dildo

• Motion: automatic thrusting with remote-control ease.
• Modes: 7 vibration modes.
• Warmth: warming technology for body-like warmth.
• Size: insertable length 6.5 in (16.5 cm), extended reach 7 in (17.7 cm), diameter 1.8 in (4.6 cm).

See it here: Oly Automatic Remote Controlled Heating Thrusting Dildo.

Passion Thrusting Vibrator with G-Spot Sliding Ring

• Motion: a 4-in-1 design that combines thrusting, sliding, tongue-licking and vibration.
• G-spot sliding ring: a unique sliding motion for deep, satisfying sensations.
• Modes: 7 thrusting and 10 vibrating modes.
• Dual stimulation: G-spot and clitoral pleasure together.
• Good to know: premium silicone, waterproof and shower friendly, USB magnetic charging.

See it here: Passion Thrusting Vibrator with G-Spot Sliding Ring.

Thrusting dildo vs regular dildo

• Effort: with a regular dildo, you create every movement. A thrusting dildo keeps the rhythm for you.
• Control: a regular dildo moves exactly how you move it. A thrusting dildo gives you set speeds and modes, adjusted with the remote.
• Feel: the heating models add warmth, which a regular dildo cannot do.
• Care: a regular dildo only needs washing. A thrusting dildo also needs charging and a little more attention around the motor and base.

Many toy boxes have room for both: a simple dildo for slow, hands-on sessions and a thrusting one for when you want to lie back and let go.

Which thrusting toy should you choose?

• You want a lifelike dildo you can ride hands-free: the Black model, with its strong suction cup and 7 in insertable length.
• You want a slightly shorter, slightly wider option: the Oly, with a 6.5 in insertable length and a 1.8 in diameter.
• You want G-spot and clit play at the same time: the Passion, with its sliding ring and tongue-licking arm.

If you are new to insertable toys, compare the sizes with a toy you already own. Diameter matters as much as length for comfort.

How to use a thrusting dildo, step by step

Step 1: Charge it and check the remote

Charge the toy fully with the charging cable from the box before your first session. If your model has a remote, make sure it works before you start.

Step 2: Wash it

Wash the shaft with warm water and mild soap, rinse it well and let it dry.

Step 3: Let it warm up

If your toy has a warming function, turn it on a little before you start, so the shaft feels warm from the first touch.

Step 4: Warm up your body

Take your time. Touch yourself, use a clit toy or your fingers first. The more relaxed and aroused you are, the more comfortable insertion will feel.

Step 5: Use plenty of water-based lube

Thrusting creates more friction than a still dildo, so be generous with lube on the shaft and on your body. For silicone, water-based lube is the one to use. Our Water Base Lube is one option.

Step 6: Insert it before you start the motion

Insert the dildo slowly while it is off, or on the lowest mode. Find a comfortable depth first. Then start the thrusting on the slowest setting.

Step 7: Go hands-free if you want

With the Black model, wet the suction cup slightly and press it onto a smooth, flat, clean surface, like a tiled wall or a smooth floor. Then use the remote to set the rhythm.

Step 8: Change modes slowly

Move up one mode at a time. Stay on each one long enough to feel it. Stop or slow down whenever you want.

Step 9: Clean it right after

Wash it with warm water and mild soap, rinse well and let it air dry completely before storing.

Tips for a better first session

• Start slow. Automatic thrusting can feel more intense than you expect.
• Reapply lube. Thrusting uses up lube faster than you think.
• Keep the base outside your body. Only insert the shaft.
• Try different positions. On your back, on your side or riding the suction cup all feel different.
• Use the remote. It lets you adjust without breaking your rhythm.

Want more beginner tips for dildos in general? Read dildos can be enjoyed by anyone. If you are completely new to toys, start with how to use a vibrator if you don't know where to start. You can see every shape and size in our dildos collection.

How to clean and store a thrusting dildo

• Wash after every use with warm water and mild soap.
• Dry it fully, including around the base, before charging.
• Store the remote with the toy, so you never lose it.
• Use a pouch to keep dust off the silicone.
• Keep the charging cable together with the toy.

Thrusting dildo FAQ

What is a thrusting dildo?

A dildo with a motor that moves the shaft in and out automatically, so you get a rhythmic motion without moving your hand.

Do your thrusting dildos heat up?

Yes. The Black and the Oly Automatic Remote Controlled Heating Thrusting Dildos both have warming technology for a more natural feel.

How many modes do they have?

The Black and the Oly have 7 modes. The Passion Thrusting Vibrator with G-Spot Sliding Ring has 7 thrusting and 10 vibrating modes.

Can I use a thrusting dildo hands-free?

Yes. The Black model has a strong suction cup that sticks to any flat surface, and the remote control lets you change modes without touching the toy.

What size is the Black thrusting dildo?

Insertable length 7 in (18 cm), extended reach 7.5 in (19 cm) and diameter 1.7 in (4.5 cm).

How are they shipped?

In plain, unbranded packaging with discreet billing. Shipping is free.