Suction Cup Dildo Guide: How to Use One Hands-Free

A suction cup dildo is a dildo with a suction base that sticks to smooth, flat surfaces, so you can use it hands-free. To use one, clean the surface and the cup, wet the cup slightly, press it down firmly, add plenty of water-based lube and lower yourself onto it slowly. Tiled shower walls, glass, smooth floors and sturdy chairs work best. You control the depth, the angle and the pace with your body.

Below you will find how suction cups work, which surfaces to use, our suction cup dildos compared and a step-by-step guide for your first hands-free session.

Why choose a suction cup dildo?

• Hands-free play. Your hands are free to touch yourself or hold a clit toy.
• You set the rhythm. Riding lets you control depth and speed with your hips.
• New positions. On the floor, on a chair or on the shower wall, each one feels different.
• Two ways to use it. When you do not want hands-free play, you can still hold it like any dildo.
• Strap-on options. Some suction cup dildos also fit a harness.

Our suction cup dildos compared

Realistic Suction Cup Premium Dildo

The Realistic Suction Cup Premium Dildo is crafted from textured silicone for longevity and comfort, with a versatile suction base that sticks securely to a chair, a wall or the floor. It has a generous girth. Total length 8 in, insertable length 7 in, girth 5 in.

Best for: a lifelike shape and a full feel.

Erotic Soft Jelly Dildo

The Erotic Soft Jelly Dildo has an ergonomic head sized for beginners and a strong suction cup that sticks to any flat surface. It fits most strap-on harnesses and comes in three sizes: Small 18 cm, Medium 20 cm and Large 22 cm.

Best for: beginners and soft, gentle play.

Fantasy Dragon Dildo

The Fantasy Dragon Dildo is made of soft, flexible black and red silicone with raised bumps along the shaft and a strong suction cup base. It is waterproof and suitable for vaginal and anal play. Length 6.88 in (17.5 cm), max diameter 1.77 in (4.5 cm). The product page describes it as beginner friendly, with a medium size and a fully flexible body.

Best for: texture and a fantasy look.

Black Automatic Remote Controlled Heating Thrusting Dildo

If you want the toy to move for you, the Black Automatic Remote Controlled Heating Thrusting Dildo combines a strong suction cup with automatic thrusting, 7 modes, warming technology and a remote control. Insertable length 7 in (18 cm), diameter 1.7 in (4.5 cm).

Best for: hands-free play where the toy does the thrusting.

See every shape and size in our dildos collection.

The best surfaces for a suction cup

A suction cup needs a smooth, flat, non-porous surface to hold. Good options:

• Tiled walls, especially in the shower.
• Glass, like a shower door or a mirror that is firmly fixed.
• Smooth floors, such as tile or sealed wood.
• A sturdy chair with a smooth, flat seat.
• A smooth board or tray you can place on the bed or the floor.

Surfaces that usually do not work: carpet, fabric, textured tiles, grout lines, wallpaper and anything uneven or dusty. If in doubt, test the seal with a firm tug first.

How to use a suction cup dildo, step by step

Step 1: Wash the dildo

Wash it with warm water and mild soap, rinse well and let it dry.

Step 2: Clean the surface

Wipe the surface so there is no dust or soap film. A clean surface holds much better.

Step 3: Wet the suction cup

A little water on the cup helps it seal. Do not use lube on the cup itself, because it can make it slip.

Step 4: Press and twist

Press the cup firmly onto the surface, center first, then push out any air. Give it a gentle tug to make sure it holds.

Step 5: Warm up

Take your time. Touch yourself or use a clit toy first. A relaxed, aroused body makes everything easier.

Step 6: Add plenty of lube

Cover the shaft with a water-based lube, such as our Water Base Lube, and add some to your body too.

Step 7: Lower yourself slowly

Position yourself over the dildo and let the tip in first. Go slowly and let your body adjust. You decide how deep you go.

Step 8: Find your rhythm

Move your hips at your own pace. Try leaning forward or back to change the angle.

Step 9: Release and clean

To remove the dildo, lift the edge of the cup to break the seal instead of pulling it straight off. Then wash it and let it dry completely.

Positions to try

• Riding on the floor: stick it to a smooth floor or board and kneel over it.
• Chair ride: stick it to a sturdy chair and sit down slowly. Your feet on the floor give you control.
• Shower wall: stick it at hip height on the tiles and back onto it. Warm water helps you relax.
• Handheld: on days you do not want to ride, just hold it by the base.

Tips and common mistakes

• Do not skip the tug test. Check the seal before you put your weight on it.
• Keep lube off the cup. Lube on the base is the most common reason it slips.
• Start small. If you are new, choose a smaller size, like the Small jelly dildo.
• Go slow. Riding can go deeper than you expect, so let your body lead.
• Keep the base outside your body. Only insert the shaft.

For more beginner tips, read dildos can be enjoyed by anyone. And when you are done, here are the best places to hide your sex toys.

How to clean and store it

• Wash after every use with warm water and mild soap, including the suction cup.
• Rinse the cup well. Soap residue can weaken the seal next time.
• Let it air dry completely before you put it away.
• Store it in a pouch, so dust and lint do not stick to the cup or the shaft.
• Keep it away from other toys, so different materials do not touch.

For more on the jelly dildo, read our soft jelly dildo guide. If you want the toy to move for you, see the thrusting dildo guide.

Suction cup dildo FAQ

What surfaces does a suction cup dildo stick to?

Smooth, flat, non-porous surfaces: tiled walls, glass, smooth floors and sturdy chairs with a smooth seat. It will not hold on carpet, fabric or textured surfaces.

Why does my suction cup keep falling off?

Usually because the surface is dusty, textured or has lube on it. Clean the surface, wet the cup with a little water and press firmly from the center out.

Can I use a suction cup dildo in the shower?

Yes, tiled shower walls are one of the best surfaces. The Fantasy Dragon Dildo is described as waterproof and safe for wet play.

Which suction cup dildo is best for beginners?

The Erotic Soft Jelly Dildo has an ergonomic head sized for beginners and comes in three sizes. The Fantasy Dragon Dildo is also described as beginner friendly.

Can I use it with a strap-on harness?

The Erotic Soft Jelly Dildo fits most strap-on harnesses.

How are they shipped?

In plain, unbranded packaging with discreet billing. Shipping is free.